My name is Boma Arinyedokiari, an
actress. I am from Kalabari, Buguma, in Rivers State. I grew up in a
Christian family. My parents were strict with us but we never lacked
anything that we wanted. I was taught everything a child should learn
and I enjoyed every bit of growing up. I attended the Nigeria Navy
Primary School, and University of Uyo, where I studied Communication
Arts. I also attended Atlas University, Philadelphia, United States of
America, for my masters degree in English. For me, experience is the
best teacher.
Acting
I knew acting was in me, but I never
thought of acting while growing up. I had always thought of being a
lawyer but I found myself acting. It all started when I was in school,
some of my classmates and my lecturer in General Studies would call me
“Actress Boma”, and they would say, ‘Boma you dress like an actress;
your hair and clothes look like those of an actress.’ I just laughed
over it, until I found myself in my dreams acting with Nollywood top
stars. At a point, I asked myself if I could really act. If that was
what God wanted, who was I to say no? That was how I found myself acting
in movies and my parents did not object to it, they supported me.
Challenges
I did not have many challenges; I overcame the few that came.
Competition
I am in no competition with anyone. My career is of utmost importance to me.
Personality
I don’t do crazy things. I dislike
dishonest people. I love straightforward people, and people who are
down-to-earth. I love open-minded people because I can proudly say I am
one. If someone offends me, I walk up to that person and tell him how I
feel and I forget it immediately. But some individuals would harbour
grudges in their minds. Honestly, I am like a book; one can read me in
just five minutes. I am very transparent.
Sexiest body part
All parts of my body are sexy.
Relationship
I am in a relationship, but my relationship is my privacy. It is not for public consumption.
Ideal man
My kind of man should be tall, God-fearing, clean, and handsome. He must be well-to-do, and have a good diction.
Nudity
I cannot completely act nude in a movie,
no matter the fee, although I have done a movie where I wore a bra and a
bum-short, that is as far as I can go.
Disagreement with Nonso Okonkwo
I do not want to go back to that anymore. I do not believe we had issues.
Male fans
It is not easy to handle them but I am
trying my best. Male fans are very naughty, but I have no choice than to
listen to them. They crack me up.
Motivation
It’s God, my parents, believing in
myself and remembering that I have an able producer, Mr. Thomas
Ogedengbe. He stood by me through thick and thin. My maxim is, “do unto
others as you expect them to do unto you”. The word of God and His grace
are the things that keep me going.
Fame
It has not been easy handling this.
Quite unlike before, I no longer walk the streets; go to saloons or
markets freely without getting noticed. Fame has indeed cost me my
freedom of movement and association. Sometimes, cover my face my with a
headgear and spectacles to escape public view but, I do not get away
with the disguise. I thank God for the pains and gains of fame.
Last word
My advice to upcoming acts is to stay
focused. Definitely, they would meet some hurdles, but they should never
give up. Nothing good comes easy in life. If they continue that way,
the sky would be their limit.
Culled from Punch
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