They five quick important and are hands-on knowledge, you won't forget in a hurry.
Enjoy them. And if you can, please use them.
One, Be Smart; be very smart
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One, Be Smart; be very smart[/caption]The first time you lay your searching eyes on a lady, and some strange but sure urges prompt you to approach her? Just do it.
Especially when one of your closest friends also likes her.
Julius Agwu and his friend Okey Bakassi were MC’s at a wedding reception in the year 2000. The beauty of a gorgeous Ibiere (who was part of the Bridal Train) caught their eyes. And there was a bet. Who will get her first?
“I was smarter. I was faster. I was able to get her contact first.” Julius said.
But it wasn’t Julius that was smarter. It was that strange and sure urge. It pushes you towards your destiny. He only obeyed the Urge, CAPSIH!
Two, Don’t Give Up. Please Don't!
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Two, Don’t Give Up. Please Don't![/caption]“Ibiere was pulling up attitudes whenever I tried to reach her after the wedding,” Julius recalled.
As a result, he made a wrong move.
“I called her bluff. In fact, I forgot about her.”
But that Urge won’t take any of that. It’s Destiny. It has a way of keeping your wife, your wife.
Two years after the Fronting years, they met in Port Harcourt again. Julius Agwu was mourning his late Dad, Ibiere was rocking on the eve of her birthday, yet mourning mixed with celebrations.
Cupid showed up. Fired his arrow. And to cut the long story short, they exchanged vows. They signed dotted lines. They inserted diamond rings. And Ibiere became Mrs. ‘Crack Ya Ribs.’
Three, Pet her, she needs it
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Three, Pet her, she needs it[/caption]Julius confirms his wife is an introvert. So he understands when she won’t even ask her if he’s had dinner when he is away from her.
He understands that being an introvert, Ibiere is only more concerned with the inner world of her mind. And she enjoys thinking, exploring her thoughts and feelings.
Instead of complaining about her nature. Julius Agwu seeks ways to be part of the inner world of her mind.
To reduce the effect of that nature getting to him Julius will always cuddle, pet and ask questions like: “Are you okay? What is the problem?’
It’s a template. It works for Julius. Do more of it, it makes your wife feel like a Baby – after all, that’s what you call dotingly call her.
Four, get angry but don’t let it last
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Four, get angry but don't let it last[/caption]“We fight, We fight until one of us is tired; usually he is the one who gets tired first.”
That’s Julius Agwu’s wife talking.
It’s self explanatory. Be the man. Real men have high self esteem but they know when to swallow their pride. Real men fight but they know how to sheath swords. Real men are like Julius Agwu they know that just because you are mad at your wife doesn't mean you should stop loving her.
Five, settle a quarrel before it starts
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Five. Settle a quarrel before it starts[/caption]A journalist asked Julies Agwu what has kept his Marriage Happy, and this is his reply:
We decided that we would not engage in Stupid Quarrels.
Ibiere, his wife, adds:
“Before the situation gets to the stage of Quarrel, we speak out our feelings instead of bottling it up.”
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